{"id":21380,"date":"2015-06-24T15:01:00","date_gmt":"2015-06-24T12:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/zigzagprinromania.com\/blog\/?p=21380"},"modified":"2015-06-24T15:39:14","modified_gmt":"2015-06-24T12:39:14","slug":"valul-vorbitului-in-public","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/zigzagprinromania.com\/blog\/valul-vorbitului-in-public\/","title":{"rendered":"Surfing cu pasiune, pe  \u201cvalul\u201d vorbitului \u00een public"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-fullwidth-1  fusion-parallax-none nonhundred-percent-fullwidth\" style=\"border-color:#eae9e9;border-bottom-width: 0px;border-top-width: 0px;border-bottom-style: solid;border-top-style: solid;padding-bottom:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-left:0px;padding-right:0px;background-color:no;\"><div class=\"fusion-row\"><p><a href=\"http:\/\/zigzagprinromania.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/IKO0ikol231.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-21382 \" src=\"http:\/\/zigzagprinromania.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/IKO0ikol231.jpg\" alt=\"Surfing cu pasiune, pe  \u201cvalul\u201d vorbitului \u00een public\" width=\"487\" height=\"447\" srcset=\"http:\/\/zigzagprinromania.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/IKO0ikol231-200x183.jpg 200w, http:\/\/zigzagprinromania.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/IKO0ikol231-300x275.jpg 300w, http:\/\/zigzagprinromania.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/IKO0ikol231.jpg 446w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 487px) 100vw, 487px\" \/><\/a><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep sep-none\" style=\"border-color:#e0dede;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:10px;margin-bottom:10px;\"><\/div>A sim\u021bit de la \u00eenceput atrac\u021bia fa\u021b\u0103 de club \u0219i de ideea de a vorbi \u00een public. Cu toate acestea, exista o oarecare rezisten\u021b\u0103 din partea lui. P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, \u00ee\u0219i ia inima-n din\u021bi \u0219i nu a mai l\u0103sat pe \u201dm\u00e2ine\u201d, hot\u0103r\u00e2nd s\u0103 se \u00eenscrie \u00een club. Asta pentru c\u0103, spune el, \u201dniciodat\u0103 nu am f\u0103cut vreo chestie nebuneasc\u0103 sau s\u0103 m\u0103 las purtat de vreun val. \u0218i-am zis c\u0103 merit\u0103 ,m\u0103car o dat\u0103-n via\u021b\u0103! Dac\u0103 ceva \u00ee\u021bi place, te-a surprins pl\u0103cut \u0219i dac\u0103 sim\u021bi \u00een ad\u00e2ncul sufletului pu\u021bin c\u0103 e o flac\u0103r\u0103 care se aprinde \u0219i care-\u021bi place \u0219i sim\u021bi c\u0103 e un mediu \u00een care po\u021bi hr\u0103ni acea flac\u0103r\u0103, merit\u0103 s\u0103-i dai o \u0219ans\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201dNiciodat\u0103 c\u00e2nd faci ceva cu pl\u0103cere, nu o s\u0103 fie simplu sau u\u0219or, lipsit de stres. O s\u0103 fii frustrat, o s\u0103 sim\u021bi agonie la un moment dat, o s\u0103 fie enervant chiar&#8230; \u0219i asta pentru c\u0103 o faci cu pasiune. Atunci c\u00e2nd pui pasiune, nimic nu e suficient de bun. \u00cencepi s\u0103 te acorzi la cine e\u0219ti tu de fapt \u0219i apoi devii un pic mai \u00eeng\u0103duitor cu tine fiindc\u0103-\u021bi dai seama de toate progresele pe care le faci treptat. Despre asta este vorba: a face lucrurile cu pl\u0103cere \u0219i a pune pasiune. Dar s\u0103 nu fie confundat\u0103 pasiunea cu ceva 100% pozitiv.<\/p>\n<p>Nu este. Ea presupune munc\u0103, efort, frustrare, disperare. Presupune o pl\u0103cere inimaginabil\u0103 pentru un lucru la care stai \u0219i te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti: \u2039de ce-mi aduce pl\u0103cere?\u203a Uneori pasiunea nu are logic\u0103. Pur \u0219i simplu este. (&#8230;) \u00cen momentul \u00een care vrem cu adev\u0103rat o m\u00e2n\u0103 de ajutor, trebuie s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103 m\u00e2na respectiv\u0103 se afl\u0103 la cap\u0103tul antebra\u021bului nostru. Aia e cea mai bun\u0103 m\u00e2n\u0103 pe care putem s-o primim vreodat\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>[mashshare]<\/p>\n<div class=\"fusion-testimonials classic fusion-testimonials-1\" data-random=\"0\"><style type='text\/css' scoped='scoped'>\n\t\t#fusion-testimonials-1 a{border-color: #747474;}#fusion-testimonials-1 a:hover, #fusion-testimonials-1 .activeSlide{background-color: #747474;}\n\t\t.fusion-testimonials.classic.fusion-testimonials-1 .author:after{border-top-color:#f6f6f6 !important;}<\/style><div class=\"reviews\"><div class=\"review avatar-image\"><blockquote><q style=\"background-color:#f6f6f6;color:#747474;\"><\/q><\/blockquote><div class=\"author\" style=\"color:#747474;\"><span class=\"testimonial-thumbnail\"><img class=\"testimonial-image\" src=\"http:\/\/zigzagprinromania.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/OPINIA.png\" style=\"-webkit-border-radius: ;-moz-border-radius: ;border-radius: ;\" \/><\/span><span class=\"company-name\"><strong>ZiggY<\/strong><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"triangle-isosceles left\">\n<h2>Vorbitul \u00een public: o ramp\u0103 de lansare c\u0103tre o via\u021b\u0103 mai bun\u0103<\/h2>\n<p>\u00cen c\u0103l\u0103toria pe meleagurile poporului de la care \u00eenv\u0103\u021b, am observat c\u0103 oamenii au vise \u0219i calit\u0103\u021bi dar \u0219i multe temeri. Cea mai des \u00eent\u00e2lnit\u0103 este teama de a vorbi \u00een public.<br \/>\nAm experimentat-o \u0219i eu, de mai multe ori\u2026Nu a fost deloc o experien\u021b\u0103 fericit\u0103! Buzele mi se uscau la \u00eenceput, m\u00e2inile, c\u00e2teodat\u0103 \u0219i genunchii, tremurau iar \u00een minte era gol! Dorin\u021ba num\u0103rul unu atunci era s\u0103 nu mai fiu \u00een fa\u021ba unui public.<br \/>\nM\u0103 pot considera un t\u00e2n\u0103r norocos! Vorbind cu oamenii din fiecare jude\u021b aceast\u0103 team\u0103 s-a diminuat mult. Fluturii exist\u0103 \u0219i acum dar au \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 zboare \u00een forma\u021bie.<br \/>\nAcum m\u0103 bucur c\u00e2nd vorbesc \u00een public \u0219i mai mult, c\u00e2nd v\u0103d pe cineva c\u0103 str\u0103luce\u0219te pe scen\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Acum c\u00e2teva zile\u2026l-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit pe el, un t\u00e2n\u0103r ar\u0103dean, care a sus\u021binut un discurs la un eveniment.<br \/>\n&#8211; Uau! \u00eemi spun entuziasmat \u00een timp ce \u00eel priveam. Aflu apoi c\u0103 fusese campion na\u021bional la discursuri preg\u0103tite.<br \/>\nVorbea clar, corect \u0219i foarte conving\u0103tor. Punea emo\u021bie \u00een fiecare cuv\u00e2nt iar audien\u021ba era cu ochii \u021bint\u0103 la el.<br \/>\nUimirea era cu at\u00e2t mai mare cu c\u00e2t, m\u0103rturisea cu z\u00e2mbetul pe buze c\u0103 fusese cel mai timid om pe care \u00eel \u0219tia.<br \/>\nA\u0219a s-a n\u0103scut curiozitatea de a-i cunoa\u0219te povestea. L-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit dup\u0103 eveniment.<br \/>\n&#8211; Habar nu aveam ce este vorbitul \u00een public, \u00eencepu t\u00e2n\u0103rul cu dic\u021bia sa corect\u0103. Am mers la Toastmasters, un club interna\u021bional, unde oamenii \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i dep\u0103\u0219easc\u0103 aceast\u0103 team\u0103 care le r\u0103pe\u0219te din poten\u021bialul personal. O improviza\u021bie pe scen\u0103, tratat\u0103 ca o re\u021bet\u0103 de paste a fost startul cunoa\u0219terii acestei arte.<br \/>\nR\u00e2dem am\u00e2ndoi.<br \/>\n\u00cel ascultam cum povestea deschis despre transform\u0103rile prin care a trecut \u0219i felul \u00een care calitatea vie\u021bii sale, crescuse. Vorbitul \u00een public chiar fusese pentru el o ramp\u0103 de lansare c\u0103tre noi oportunit\u0103\u021bi.<br \/>\n&#8211; Aveai certitudinea c\u0103 vei reu\u0219i s\u0103 st\u0103p\u00e2ne\u0219ti vorbitul \u00een public ?\u00eentreb eu, vr\u00e2nd s\u0103 aflu principiul c\u0103l\u0103uzitor.<br \/>\n&#8211; Nu aveam! Chiar aveam o oarecare rezisten\u021b\u0103 pentru a face asta pe termen lung.<br \/>\nSe g\u00e2ndi pu\u021bin \u0219i apoi spuse:<br \/>\n&#8211; Ziggy, cred c\u0103 certitudinea e un premiu pe care \u00eel prime\u0219ti ulterior, dup\u0103 ce continui s\u0103 depui toate eforturile necesare \u00eentr-o anumit\u0103 activitate.<br \/>\n&#8211; Erau obiceiuri zilnice speciale pe care le-ai adoptat la \u00eenceput?<br \/>\n&#8211; Hmm, dac\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc mai bine, cred c\u0103 e vorba de ce nu faci \u00een fiecare zi&#8230;la care renun\u021bi. E vorba s\u0103 renun\u021bi la griji, la negativism acel \u201ctu\u201d care te trage \u00een jos.<br \/>\nPovestea vie\u021bii sale, m\u0103 l\u0103sa s\u0103 v\u0103d un t\u00e2n\u0103r care a schimbat multe activit\u0103\u021bi, care fusese vulnerabil, gre\u0219ise \u0219i \u00eenv\u0103\u021base din ele.<br \/>\n&#8211; Am observat c\u0103 faci lucrurile cu pasiune \u0219i \u0219tii s\u0103 transmi\u021bi foarte mult entuziasm, \u00eei spun la un moment dat.<br \/>\n&#8211; Da, asta e felul \u00een care \u00eemi place s\u0103 apar \u00een fa\u021ba lumii, r\u0103spunse el bucuros. \u021aine minte un lucru Ziggy. C\u00e2nd faci lucrurile cu pasiune n-o s\u0103 fie simplu. Vor fi momente \u00een care poate vei sim\u021bi frustrare, nemul\u021bumire sau agonie. Sunt parte din procesul practic\u0103rii pasiunii tale.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00e2n\u0103rul ar\u0103dean m-a entuziasmat prin felul s\u0103u exploziv \u0219i calculat de a fi. \u00cen acela\u0219i timp, mi-a oferit multe perle de \u00een\u021belepciune desprinse din experien\u021ba sa ca vorbitor \u00een public, om de baz\u0103 \u00een liga studen\u021bilor \u0219i apoi consilier.<br \/>\n\u00centre noi fie vorba, entuziasmul ghidat c\u0103tre rezultate concrete, creeaz\u0103 miracole!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep sep-none\" style=\"border-color:#e0dede;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:30px;\"><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A sim\u021bit de la \u00eenceput atrac\u021bia fa\u021b\u0103 de club \u0219i de ideea de a vorbi \u00een public. 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